Where

fun

meets the

sacred

Grounded.

Confident.

You want a healthier relationship with money. Or your body. Or sex in general. (Maybe all three.)


It’s not too much to ask—to feel grounded and confident in these basic foundations of life.

But we’re “supposed to” keep quiet about them. Shushed, shamed, pushed into the shadows.
And that silence? It costs you: your clarity, your connection, your joy.

That’s where I come in—as a certified pleasure coach and certified financial recovery counselor, I bring professional training and real-world experience to help you build confidence and clarity in your life.

I specialize in each corner of what I call the Taboo Trifecta—that tangled, tender intersection of your inner and outer worlds.
Your wallet is how you move through the world.
Your pleasure is how you inhabit yourself.
And your self-confidence? That’s the magic bridge between the two.

This is where I teach you to thrive.

I’m Olivia, and I offer specific, repeatable tools that help individuals and couples shift out of confusion and into confidence—whether you’ve read all the books and still feel stuck, or you’re just starting to realize something isn’t working.
You don’t have to know exactly what’s wrong. You just have to be willing to explore.

Why This Work Works

Shame is sneaky. It hides in silence and thrives in secrecy. It distorts your choices, dims your desires, and convinces you to shrink when you’re meant to shine.

You probably have ideas of what you “should” do. Budget. Self-Care. Bla bla bla.

You need tools. Accountability. A proven system that has gotten others unstuck.

It’s not about being “fixed”—it’s about coming home to your whole self.
To depth and delight.
This is where fun meets sacred.

That’s the beauty—and the brilliance—of doing this work.

Where We Begin

Some clients find me after a show, inspired by the confidence, clarity, and joy they see onstage—and they want to feel that way in real life. Others come in through the doorway of money, body image, or intimacy—and soon discover how deeply all three are connected.

You already know what you want. I help you claim it with skill, presence, and power.

Ready?

Let’s have a real conversation.
Book a free discovery call and start building the relationship you want with money, your body, and your joy.

Intimacy everywhere

Intimacy everywhere

CLIENT LOVE

One-on-One testimonial

Group Testimonial

  • Sara (Businesswoman & Mom of 3)

    “Seriously, you’ve changed the game for us.

    ~~I’m hoovering in opportunities~~

    Even my husband is smitten with me –he wants to bang like several times a day. Follows me around like a puppy-obsessed with my pu$$y!”

  • Jenny (Widow & Mom of 3)

    I felt so great after last session. I’m feeling more hopeful. Now it really feels like I’m able to ask for what I need. I know he’s receptive. I just need to ask. (And a few sessions later…)

    Now I know not only what to ask for, and HOW to ask for it, but, most importantly, I’m finding the guts to ask.

  • Greg (Musician)

    ​The best part of working with Olivia ... Feeling free to express my ignorance on certain aspects of life and not feel judged.

  • Madelina (Artist & Educator)

    Before Olivia, my relationship was based on scarcity and depravity. Olivia's positivity and sense of humor has been invaluable. Now I feel excited about experiences that make my life richer and happier. 10/10 recommend Olivia!

  • Lara (Personal Therapist)

    Olivia has been instrumental in creating a strong foundation for my business. Her patience, humor, organizational skills, practical knowledge and playful manner creates a pleasurable experience for a potentially anxiety-producing subject matter. I highly recommend Olivia for business, personal and couples coaching!

  • Joshua (Musician)

    After just one session with Olivia, I’ve already started caring for myself in a more intimate way. Things that never occurred to me to try are surprisingly delightful.

FAQs

  • Olivia is like a little sprite fairy buddha whose infectious energy permeates every aspect of your life. Clients often cite moments in their daily routines where they say they hear Olivia’s voice suggesting a new way to look at life.

    “…She is never judgmental,”

    “…You create such a safe space,”

    “…and suddenly with you it’s ok to be all of me,” and

    “are you enlightened or something?” are all client quotes.

    For anyone who is female-identifying and who wants more fun, spark, and connection in life, LaughwithIntimacy was designed for you.

  • Singles and couples alike benefit enormously from the LaughWithIntimacy process. Even when only one member of a couple joins a class here, the entire couple’s lives will improve.

    Coaching packages are the best path for couples who want to experience this process together, creating a deeper level of fun and closeness in every aspect of their lives.

    LaughwithIntimacy has also had wonderful results with mediations amongst friendships. Contact for details.

  • Most of the sessions are conducted over zoom; to find in-person events, please check out the special events tab, or send an email with the geographic area you’re hoping to join live events.

  • Firstly, you are guaranteed to laugh in every session. Also, there is almost always dancing (not for each other, not as a performance, but for YOU to feel your body move, to experience different ways to inhabit your precious body).

    In each session we learn a tool and practice it, letting it shed light on as many aspects of the life you’re creating as you would like.

  • Laughter is truly transformational. As a Professionally Trained Medical Clown, performing in hospitals and dementia units throughout the Bay Area, Olivia saw first-hand how laughter correlates with health and wellness.

    Many coaches give advice, or lecture, about things that make total sense to the client. But they don’t sink in. That’s where laughter plays a unique role.

    Laughing requires new breath, fresh air intake, and a cellular response. Oxygen levels increase when play and laughter are brought into the experience. Naturally, students integrate each area of change, because their biochemistry and neurological pathways are affected with every guffaw, giggle, and chuckle.

  • Every class has a Q&A portion, where individuals have a chance to get my Pleasure Coaching eyes on YOU, to exactly the level of depth you are desiring.

  • You choose to which areas of your life you invite more intimacy. While Touch Me & Shine Me are more focused on intimacy in your relationships to romance and sex, every class has aspects that you can bring into those aspects of your life. If, on the other hand, what you desire is more fun and aliveness in other arenas of life (parenting, work relationships, friendships, just getting through the day!) you get to focus there in our work together.

  • The programs and individual coaching all increase in length of session and time commitment as the tools deepen within your being.

  • No other coach is a Professionally Trained Medical Clown, whose childhood was steeped in a martial arts mindset. This combination, creating a sacred trickster ethos, creates an extremely unique and effective coaching approach.

    By grounding every inquiry in embodiment, your own personal growth expands from universal truth. Some coaches impose their philosophies on clients’ self-discovery. Coach Oh!(~livia) always guides students to find their answers and their truths inside their bodies.

    Olivia’s maiden name, Lehrman, has always been associated with teaching, and she comes from a long line of teachers. The LaughwithINtimacy process is not a doctrine to memorize, nor a listen-to-the-guru experience. It is a signature somatic process that Olivia teaches, so that students always have those tools to come back to on their own.

  • All information shared will be kept strictly confidential. Within groups, we have strict protocols about preserving the confidentiality of what is shared. You are welcome to share with others your experience, but each member is asked not to share experiences that are not her own. Further, no one will hear from me that we are working together, while you are free to share your experience outside the sessions. Your willingness to be truthful and vulnerable will be treated with the ultimate respect.

  • The cost varies, depending on the intensity and VIP level of your needs. At various times throughout the year, discounts are offered through my newsletter, so sign up there! Additionally, I reserve 10% of all enrollment for under-funded community members. Please send me a note if you identify as limited by poverty or under-resourcing.

  • Absolutely. Once we get on a call, most people know within minutes if they are ready to work with me. The free consultations are one of my most cherished and fun parts of my job, as I love getting that intimate connection with each of you.

  • Yes; there’s so much we cover that I wish I’d known before I turned 20.

    I’ve done workshops and series for pre-teen and high school girls. I can help you attract other families to create a group, so that your daughter has peers to learn these same tools, but in a vein that is appropriate for her.

    Parents have appreciated knowing their daughters are getting solid, safe information, while learning how to respect themselves more, and find vibrancy on their own during what can be some confusing times.

  • YES! I love every opportunity to provide men and those who are male-identifying with as many tips and insights as they want on this magical, sometimes elusive, journey called intimacy. Right now, I offer private sessions to men, whether they are in relationships or finally want to get out of the empty dating spiral. There are also opportunities for male-identifying folks to participate in group classes–book a call to let me know you’re interested!

express every aspect of yourself, with total clarity about what you want.